me and my partner: addicts

[HawkEye]

hi everyone, i'm new here and i just want to share something about me.. i have this partner (i prefer to call her partner rather than girlfriend because we're living together now under one roof) for almost 4 years now.. and we are both alcoholics and a regular weed user. i must say we both know this stuffs are not good. but we always find ourselves having trouble with quitting. we suspect that our addiction to substance is the main culprit for her not being able to conceive.. am i right about that? does anyone knows a better way on how to quit alcohol and weeds?