Guys and girls I need advice..?

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Guys and girls I need advice..?

Postby Sky123 » Fri Jun 28, 2013 10:32 am

Hey guys and girls,
It's my first time on this forum and post so please be gentle with me..
Hey where to start, we'll I've always been sexually active ever since the age of what 13 or so when I first had a sexual experience leaving me with a great feeling always wanting more..
From then on I have maybe masturbated almost everyday probably of my life, it's crazy...!
I used to always go out and end up with women having nights of awesome wild sex even maybe weekends worth, even at uni almost every other night with different women, but never wanting anything more.
I was always looking at women, and instead of thinking ah what a nice person and could be a great friend, I'd be thinking, shit I would love to have a piece of that. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the female body so much, it's so attractive but I want all of them...! I was obsessed with having sex and with different people
Well that was then and this is now, I'm married and very happy, but I still masturbate to porn maybe two times a day and still have sex with my wife who is gorgeous, but she doesn't know anything about this or my cravings. She is very sexually active too so I have to keep up with her demands, but this masturbating is socially time wasteful and once its done there is no more craving, its like i have to do it so i can get on and out doing stuff...
I think I can control it but it often catches up with me, like on a night out I always seek female attention, but I will not act upon it as I love my wife, but its just that chase...argh...!!
Anyhow if there is any advice or guidance that can be offered please feel free to your a slag or bastard comments, that's not why I have come on this site as seen by some previous posts, really, calling a girl a slag who is asking for advice is not helpful or nice, but anyway lay it on me
Cheers for your time tho
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Re: Guys and girls I need advice..?

Postby adele » Thu Sep 10, 2015 4:41 am

not only you man.. me too, but i deal with it,... masturbating is normal, somehow it helps my boyfriend have more time to focus to his work lol , our sex life is still awesome even just sometime ;)
but i stop myself thinking about other man, cause i think he deserved with that. yes.. :)
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Re: Guys and girls I need advice..?

Postby Sains1938 » Fri Sep 16, 2016 10:36 am

You can get rid of your cravings. Maybe you can go for a sex addiction treatment. A friend of mine had undergone this procedure in in Edmonton and found this treatment effective. Hope you would get rid of your addiction.
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Guys and girls I need advice

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Re: Guys and girls I need advice..?

Postby Hope(less) » Thu Jan 23, 2020 10:27 am

Try out a 12 step recovery group. Try SA (Sexaholics Anonymous), SAA (Sex Addicts Anonymous) or SLAA (Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous). The key difference between these is the emphasis - but also, remember that in SAA snd SLAA you can 'define your own sobriety', which is unhelpful if your addiction is already very well-rooted.

I struggled with this addiction for close to 20 years and could have died because of it. I've now been TOTALLY clean of it for almost 9 - and have SA to thank for saving my life. The past 8+ years have been the absolute BEST of my life -- once the compulsion is taken away, then it's amazing how much life improves.
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Re: Guys and girls I need advice..?

Postby tomsiddle » Sat Oct 24, 2020 11:39 am

You must control this urge about masturbate and sex all the time and yaa be loyal to your wife.
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